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Cara Lopez Lee at Denver's BookBar with J.D. Mason, author of the novel Crazy, Sexy, Revenge.

Dear Friends,

Thank you to everyone who stopped by Denver's BookBar on Saturday, October 18 to toast the new Conundrum Press edition of my memoir, They Only Eat Their Husbands. I felt warmly embraced by your love and enthusiasm, and was reminded of how lucky I am to know so many smart, funny, kind people. Thanks, too, to everyone who dropped in on my Blog Book Tour this month. Your friendship and support make all those hours alone with my laptop worthwhile!

If you have not yet had a chance to read my latest creative nonfiction piece, Which Words Come Last, please stop by Rivet Journal. Rivet's tagline is "The Journal of Writing That Risks," and if that's the kind of writing you like, then I believe you won't be disappointed.

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They Only Eat their Husbands


"I've read many memoirs, but it's rare when an author really opens up and divulges her innermost insecurities. Cara Lopez Lee never leaves a question unanswered and brings the reader right into her roller coaster world of abandonment, commitment phobic/alcoholic boyfriends, and her colorful surroundings...No matter your background, you'll be able to take something from this book, whether it's how to stand up for yourself, how to steer clear of an unhealthy relationship, how to trust your instincts, or how to live according to your rules."
   —Susan Blumberg-Kason, author of the memoir Good Chinese Wife (Sourcebooks, Spring 2014)

"I loved Cara Lopez Lee's memoir. The characters are as well drawn as those in novels, the relationship dynamics fascinating, and the journey of self-discovery very satisfying. I don't know how she came up with the book's structure—very risky—but it definitely works. The voice in the memoir is charming and honest, without being cloying or precious. It's a voice you definitely want to spend time with."
   —Barbara Wright, author of the novel Plain Language (Touchstone), winner of a Spur award from the Western Writers of America

At 26, after a lover threatens to shoot her, Cara runs away to Alaska. During her nine years in the Last Frontier, she lands in a love triangle with two alcoholics: a paraglider pilot obsessed with danger and a martial artist obsessed with death. At 35, sick of addicts, Cara runs again, to backpack around the world alone.

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